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Marriage Celebrant, Vlady Peters, specialises in Wedding, Naming, Renewal, Commitment and House or Home Blessing Ceremony in Brisbane, Redcliffe, North Lakes, Caboolture, Pine Rivers and Redland Bay.

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Handfasting Ceremony

What is Handfasting?
Handfasting, at its simplest, can be explained as a spiritual union between two people, as opposed to a legal union. Consequently, handfasting can be conducted as part of the conventional wedding ceremony as well as commitment ceremony.

Where does Handfasting fit into a Wedding Ceremony?Because it's not a legal union, handfasting precedes the legal vows.

What do you use in the Handfasting ceremony to tie the hands?
To tie the hands in the handfasting ceremony, some people will use one wide satin ribbon (2 or 3 metres long, 3 to 5 centimetres wide). Others will use a cord which is anything between the size of a cord used for curtains, or something thinner. Those couples who want to use the six colours, but want only one cord, will put together the six thin cords and plait them into one.

Who binds the cords?
Anyone at the ceremony can do the binding - the celebrant, parents of the bride and groom, brothers or sisters of the couple, the attendants or other relatives and friends not directly involved in the ceremony proceedings.

How are the hands bound in Handfasting Ceremony?
Again, this can be a matter of personal choice of the couple.

In the first instance it can be right hands joined in a handshake position.

Secondly, it can be left hands joined in a handshake position.

Thirdly, four hands are joined with wrists on top of each other right hand to left, and left hand to right. The bottom wrist that of the groom, then the bride, then the groom with the top wrist belonging to the bride.

Fourthly, handshake position of both hands so that a cross is formed.

Handfasting and Jumping the Broom
Apart from using cords, ribbons and shawls, part of the ceremony  can include jumping the broom.

The broom represents the more domestic aspects of a marriage, suggesting that while there will be highs in any marriage, there will also be the more mundane. If the bride and groom are to live their lives as two supportive partners, they need to be aware of both aspects of their married life.

Handfasting Vows
The Handfasting ceremony can be enhanced by the use of language appropriate to its origins and intentions, even when the bride and groom are making their vows to each other.

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